Navigating the Hitting Phase
If your toddler starts hitting, try focusing first on the person who was hurt rather than the hitting behaviour. Acknowledge their feelings with comments like “Your sister is hurt and feeling upset,” which helps model empathy and avoids giving extra attention to the behaviour. Later, when your child is calm, gently explain that hitting hurts people and encourage the use of gentle hands instead.
If your toddler starts hitting, try focusing first on the person who was hurt rather than the hitting behaviour. Acknowledge their feelings with comments like “Your sister is hurt and feeling upset,” which helps model empathy and avoids giving extra attention to the behaviour. Later, when your child is calm, gently explain that hitting hurts people and encourage the use of gentle hands instead.
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